If you are a Christian, let me hazard a guess: John 3:16?
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My heart leans toward its themes of unconditional love, divine sacrifice, and eternal promise. Yet my mind is drawn to another passage—one often marooned at the altar, sounding dry or trite to modern ears. And yet, it may hold the key to breaking the Senate deadlock that has paralyzed our nation’s legislative work.
I call it the Proactive Humility passage. But before turning up its music, let me rewind.
Faith and Works in Tandem
Years before joining Couples for Christ (CFC), I experienced spiritual renewal through Louie, a born-again friend whose memory still stirs my spirit.
Later, my battlefield became CFC-GK, where faith met the grit of service.
I came to know Frank Padilla, CFC’s founder, through his books. In “Fulfilling the Mandate,” he dedicated:
“Your quiet but untiring and selfless work is slowly but surely helping renew the face of the earth.”
Tony Meloto, the Gawad Kalinga figurehead, embodied the other half of James 2:17:
“Faith by itself is dead if it does not have works.”
Frank stood for Faith; Tony for Works.
One morning, our CFC-GK team ventured into rebel territory. Local officials warned us not to stay past sundown. We loaded a dump truck with tools we had bought ourselves. At first, the village was silent, doors closed, faces hidden.
But as our doctors made rounds and our hammers rang, doors opened. Smiles formed. By dusk, roofs were sealed, wounds tended, and hearts quietly lifted. No ceremonies, no selfies—just silent acknowledgment and prayer.
When asked why we did it, my answer became simple: It’s a God inspired thing.
The Passage That Could Have Changed Everything
Not all God-inspired things remain pure. At a crucial leaders’ conference in Manila, tensions between CFC and GK boiled over. I wrote an open letter quoting my so-called Proactive Humility passage:
“If you bring your gift to the altar, and there recall that your brother has anything against you, leave your gift there at the altar, go first and be reconciled with your brother, and then come and offer your gift.” (Matthew 5:23-24)
Reconciliation failed. CFC and GK split. Frank passed away on December 24, 2025. Tony was arrested in May 2026 on charges of trafficking and exploitation.
Two questions haunt me:
1. Had Frank and Tony heeded the PH passage, could their story have ended better, not bitter?
2. Is this passage applicable to today’s Senate deadlock?
The first answer seems obvious. The second is a resounding yes. The passage reveals that God values horizontal relationships—with people—over vertical rituals with Him. True worship requires reconciliation.
Senator Alan Cayetano, in one of his many pronouncements invoking God and quoting Scripture, declared:
But in light of Jesus’ words in Matthew 5:23-24, does Cayetano truly abide by their essence? Where in his statement do we find the horizontal relationships with people that God values? His drift is entirely toward vertical rituals—prayer, discernment, submission—without the beam of reconciliation.
Think of the cross: the upright post symbolizes our vertical rituals with God; the crossbeam represents our horizontal relationships with people.
Cayetano’s words reveal only the upright post. He has no crossbeam.
And without the crossbeam, he cannot embody Proactive Humility—the essence of Jesus’ command to “go first and be reconciled with your brother.”
A Glimmer in the Senate
Senator Joel Villanueva recently announced he would attend a special session of Congress, possibly convened by President Ferdinand Marcos Jr., to resolve the Senate leadership row. Villanueva declared:
By invoking God’s name and taking the first step—go first—Senator Villanueva demonstrates Proactive Humility. He sets ego aside without waiting for the other side to move.
That is light at the end of the tunnel. May it not be the headlight of an oncoming train.
And yet, even if shadows loom, the promise of John 3:16 still resounds: “For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son…”
That love is not passive ritual but active reconciliation. It is the crossbeam of the cross stretched outward toward our brothers and sisters, binding vertical faith to horizontal fellowship.
If our leaders dare to embody that love—humbling themselves, going first, reconciling before offering gifts at the altar—then the light at the end of the tunnel will not blind, but illumine.
It will be the light of a God who so loved the world, and who still calls us to love one another.
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