When Big Brother America sneezes, the Philippines catches a cold. It is a line we know well, often spoken in jest about economics, politics, culture.
But Tacloban forces us to hear it differently — not as a quip, but as a warning.
For decades, America has wrestled with the epidemic of school shootings. Columbine was the fever spike, Parkland the relapse, Oxford the reminder that the virus mutates with each generation.
Guns are abundant there, woven into the fabric of rights and identity. The contagion spreads easily: a cabinet opened, a latch lifted, a weapon in hand.
And for me, the epidemic is not abstract.
A few years back, my granddaughter Bhrylle celebrated her third birthday in Texas. I had not met her in person at that time since the day she was born, so I pieced together a poem for her — a fragile bridge of words across oceans.
Soon afterward, I stumbled upon the heartbreaking news of the Nashville elementary school shooting, where nine-year-old children were slain.
The juxtaposition was gut-wrenching: the innocence of my granddaughter’s birthday, the horror of children cut down in their classrooms.
That moment made America’s epidemic personal. It was no longer just headlines of Columbine or Parkland; it was the haunting possibility that the virus of violence could touch my own bloodline.
And now, with Tacloban, the cold has caught us too — not through abundance of guns, but through negligence.
Culture of Impunity
One morning, I was brainstorming what to write in my next article when I received an inquisitive message from one of my ATABAY readers, Dolly. Her words struck me like a spark: “Is it the effect somehow of how Duterte had influenced the mind of the young ones that it’s ok to be violent and kill?”
Her question pierces deeper than the surface facts. It reminds us that Tacloban’s tragedy cannot be explained only by negligence or bullying; it must also be seen against the backdrop of a culture shaped by six years of Duterte’s rhetoric and example.
For years, the former president’s infamous chant — “Kill, Kill, Kill” — echoed in rallies, met not with outrage but applause. His Time cover as “The Punisher”, his countless photos brandishing firearms, his boast of attempting to kill a fraternity brother in college, his repeated confessions of killing people in Davao as mayor, his spoon-feeding of impunity to police and military — all these were not isolated theatrics.
They were lessons, broadcast to the nation, that violence could be normalized, even glorified.
So when a police aunt left her weapons unsecured, and two bullied boys found them, Dolly’s question becomes the bone of contention. Was this merely carelessness, or was it also the echo of a leader’s long project of desensitizing a nation to killing?
Inside The Classroom
The horror is intimate. These were not strangers storming the gates; they were insiders, wounded and festering, who chose destruction over dialogue.
In Columbine, Harris and Klebold spoke of alienation, of being misfits in a culture of conformity. In Parkland, Nikolas Cruz was expelled, branded a problem, yet still able to access an AR-15. In Oxford, Ethan Crumbley’s disturbing drawings were ignored only hours before he opened fire.
And in Tacloban, the suspects were bullied until silence hardened into vengeance, their storm made possible by a single reckless act — a police aunt’s careless safekeeping of her firearms.
The atrocity lies not only in the deaths but in the failure of community itself — peers, teachers, parents, institutions — to see the storm brewing in the hearts of their own children.
And in our case, the failure was compounded by a culture where violence had been modeled from the top.
Society In Trial
For the Philippines, the lesson is paradoxically hopeful.
Gun control here is strong; the tragedy was not born of constitutional excess but of custodial failure. The path forward is vigilance: stricter safekeeping, sharper accountability, deeper empathy.
For the United States, Tacloban offers a subtle but profound mirror.
It shows that even in a land where guns are scarce, one careless lapse can unleash devastation. It refracts the decades-old debate on the Second Amendment into a new light: the problem is not only rights but responsibilities.
And it reminds us: negligence does not grow in a vacuum. It grows in a soil fertilized by impunity, actively encouraging law enforcement and citizens to “kill, kill, kill” drug suspects, offering bounties and promising immunity from prosecution by leaders who model brutality as strength.
Both nations are indicted by the same refrain: when children carry guns into classrooms, society itself is on trial.
Final Thoughts
Tacloban is not Columbine. It is not Parkland. It is not Oxford. But we hear this echo: when leaders glorify killing, even the young may believe it is permissible.
One nation coughs from too much freedom, another shivers from too little vigilance. Both must answer the same haunting question: How do we protect our children not only from bullets, but from the contagion of a culture that teaches killing as acceptable?
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