“I did say that 80% of success is showing up.” Woody
Allen
Through the eyes of the Filipino people, particularly
the voters, presidential candidate Faisal Mangondato cut Marcos Jr. down to size
virtually in the Comelec’s first presidential debate. Setting the two of them
side by side, Mangondato won the “war of words” without firing a shot – simply because
Marcos Jr. failed in showing up in the debate as represented disquietingly by
an empty podium on the stage.
“Who the hell is candidate Faisal Mangondato?” Marcos
Jr.’s operatives asked.
A businessman from Lanao del Sur under the political
party called Katipunan ng Kamalayang Kayumanggi, Mangondato will push for
federalism if he wins, urging legislators to donate a month’s salary to the
poor, including the construction of solar-powered panels for homes of poor
families, and giving them livestock to tend. More than once during the debate,
he used the phrase “Mga Kababayan Ko” which reminded me of Francis Magalona’s
oldie but goldie song lyrics: “Mga kababayan ko, dapat lang malaman nyo, bilib
ako sa kulay ko, ako ay Pilipino.”
Weighed against each other, Mangondato (lumped by
Marcos Jr.’s operatives with other candidates as clowns, megalomaniacs, insane,
crackpots, and cuckoos) diminished virtually Marcos Jr. who, by not showing up,
has devalued himself, typical of the following losers:
Loser 1. One who failed to show up on a “blind date.” Arranged
for by a mutual acquaintance (Comelec), both participants -- the candidates on
one side, the voters on the other side -- would meet virtually (the questions
embody the voters’ minds) for the first time. What do you think of a man who
failed to show up on a blind date? My FB friend Lan commented, “Talo na default pa.”
Loser 2. One who failed to show up in a school
examination. What do you think of someone who failed to show up for a final
exam? I asked my college student who replied, “Unprepared.”
Loser 3. One who failed to show up for a job
interview. What do I think of a job applicant who failed to show up for a job
interview? As a former corporate guy, I thought he was “uninterested.”
Simple but sincere as he was during the debate,
Mangondato came out on top over Marcos Jr. because by showing up during the
debate, just like the rest of the candidates standing with him on the stage, he
has demonstrated the following qualities of a leader that any presidential
candidate must possess:
A. He values
listening.
“O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much
seek…To be understood as to understand.” (The Prayer of Saint Francis)
The fifth habit in the Seven Basic Habits of the Highly
Effective People authored by Dr. Stephen R. Covey: Seek first to understand,
then to be understood. It is not: “You open up your mind for me.” It is: “I’ll
open up my mind for you.” It is not: “Did you get me?” It is: “Did I get you?”
It is not: “Here’s what I’m trying to say to you.” It is: “Here’s what you’re
trying to say to me.” When a leader seeks to understand, he empathizes –
putting himself in voters’ shoes.
Dr. M. Scott Peck said, “True listening is love in action.” Mangondato showed up and listened well to the questions from the voters’ minds -- because he cared for them. Listening well is hard work which may take an extra step or walk an extra mile. Marcos Jr. didn’t show up and was unable to listen. He was unable to listen because he didn’t care. He didn’t care -- because he’s lazy – if it’s hard work.
B. He personifies courage
“Courage starts with showing up and letting ourselves be
seen.” (Brene Brown, author, and researcher)
“Kaya po mga kababayan ko, ang aming i-ooffer sa mga
Pilipino ay lisanin na itong sistemang bulok na nagkakaroon ng sakit maski sino
umupo sa upuan ng pagkapangulo sa ating bansa kaya pa sa Sistema nabago ay may
bagong pag-asa ang samabayanang Pilipino” (Mangondato)
(We offer you to leave the old system which brought
difficulties to us. No matter who is seated as president, we need a new system
to bring new hope to all Filipinos.)
Slowly and calmly answering the questions on the stage
just like talking over the dinner table, Mangondato projected courage that had emanated
from his vision which in fulfilling such vision, it radiated his contagious
passion. Not only is he the only one energized by the passion of his vision,
others (imagine a viewer blessed materially but has done nothing for the country)
who watched Mangondato that night could have fired his imagination of doing something good
for his poor countrymen.
C. He epitomizes a democratic ideal
“I have cherished the ideal of a democratic and free
society in which all persons live together in harmony and with equal opportunities.”
(Nelson Mandela)
The global political shifts, particularly in the US, have
unveiled democracy in crisis mode. “[M]any institutions are dysfunctional and
getting worse,” The New Yorker reported. “[P]olitics have become alarmingly acrimonious...”
It cast a long shadow over our nation’s political landscape so gravely that watching
on TV Mangondato -- a relatively unknown presidential aspirant from a
relatively obscure locality of Cawayan, Marantao – projected a refreshing scene
for it has borne witness to a glimpse of a promising future of a democratic ideal
for our country -- like equal opportunities for everybody.
“Mahalaga po ang isang debate para malaman ng ating mga
kababayan ano ba talaga ang kailangan sa sitwasyon sa ating bansa. Ano ba ang
dinadala ng mga kandidato na kailangan masaliksik nang mabuti ng ating mga
kababayan dahil po pag nagkamali po tayo ng pagsulat, anim na taon po natin
dadalhin sa ating bayan,” Mangondato said.
(A debate is important for people to understand what
the national situation requires. And what do candidates bring with them, which
the people need to examine closely because if we err in writing down our
choices, the nation will bear that burden for six years.)
In contrast, Marcos Jr., after showing himself to be unworthy, unprepared, and uninterested, his operatives are now eating their hearts out over another chance for their big shot -- a different kind of blind date, a different kind of final exam, a different kind of job interview.
In the real world, after screwing up one’s opportunity, the standard response: No Way.